5 Ways to Developing a Path to Success..


1 Identify your strong emotions. Before you can (accomplish or gain with effort) success, you will have to define what success means to you. While it may take years to ( understand / make real/ achieve) what you want to do with your life, identifying your strong emotions, interests, and values will help you set goals and give your life a sense of meaning. Ask yourself the following questions: 
What do you want your (something given to future people) to be? 
How would you like to be remembered by others? 
How do you want to make your community a better place? 
What are some favorite subjects of interest in your life? For example, think of subjects you enjoyed studying in school. Ask why you liked them.
For instance, you may have loved musical theater. Think: was it because you loved the music, or was it because you loved working with a big group towards a common goal?


2 Make a list of your goals, and what you might do to (accomplish or gain with effort) them. Be sure to address both (for only a short time) and long-term goals; try to think beyond (related to managing money) and career goals. Draw up a timeline that says when you want to (accomplish or gain with effort) each part.
Set SMART goals; goals that are clearly stated/particular, measurable, (able to be done), (clearly connected or related), and time-bound. 
Break big goals down. For instance, if your goal is to see the world, you can set the goal of saving money and visiting certain countries.


3 Live (in a way where you carefully plan something). In order to (accomplish or gain with effort)your dreams and be the person you want to be, you will have to start paying attention to your actions. Ask yourself, "Is what I'm doing going to lead me to where I want to be in life?"
If you find yourself constantly bored, daydreaming about the future or past or counting down the minutes until the day ends, it is probably because you feel disconnected from what you're doing. 
Love and honor your time. Try to spend your free time doing things that you enjoy doing, rather than wasting time. For example, rather than spending your weekends watching television, spend them (taking part of something/joining others as they do something) in your hobbies or spending time with loved ones and new friends. 
Measure your working well and getting a lot done by engagement, not (action of accomplishing or completing something challenging). Not everything you do has to be productive in the ordinary sense, but activities should be engaging and enjoyable.


4 Stick to your promises. Planning is not (good) enough; keeping your word is also important. If you tell someone you will do something, do it. (in almost the same way), don't tell someone you will do something if you're not sure you can. Be honest about your limits. 
Avoid canceling plans, and try not to cancel twice on the same person. 
Make promises to yourself, and stick to them. Write down your promises and hang them in places you can see.
 
5 Enjoy the present moment. If you are constantly spending too much time on the past or daydreaming about the future, you are missing out on the present moment. Remember that the past and the future are simply fake images, and that real life happens here and now. 
Start paying attention to negative thoughts so that you can move on from them and enjoy the present moment. If a negative thought rises/comes up in your head, then admit/recognize/respond to it, label it a negative thought, and then let it fade away.
Get in the habit of paying attention to small details around you. Appreciate the feeling of the sun on your skin, the feeling of your feet walking on the ground, or the artwork in the restaurant you are eating in. (seeing/hearing/becoming aware of) things like these will help you silence a long and boring mind and appreciate every moment.

Trust me in the end of the day everything will be fine. If you just learn have patience. 

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